By adopting certain beliefs we can empower ourselves to get brilliant results in ourselves and in others. This is the basis for the Presuppositions of NLP. These are in essence convenient assumptions that get the best out of you and the people that you are in touch with. If I say I believe in everyones [...]
Get out of your Comfort Zone This is your comfort zone. You know it. It’s comfortable in here. It is otherwise known as the Grey Zone. Grey is a good name for it isn’t it? Grey, it’s just grey. Not black, not white, just grey.... It is the place that most people would like you [...]
The meaning of the communication is not simply what you intend, but also the response that you get. You may have heard people say something like, ‘if you do not like what i have to say then that is your problem.’ I would suggest that is not the best form of communication possible. If two [...]
So, you know where you are heading, you have written your goals. It’s good to write goals, isn’t it? Goals give us direction in life, a purpose. But wait, have you considered ecology? Are your goals ecological? Now, here’s the interesting thing about ecology. There are basically four things to do with ecology. Firstly, does [...]
Personal development and growing as an individual is all about trying new things isn’t it? Well, no actually. I accept the statement largely, flexibility of behaviour is very important, the Law of Requisite Variety being one of the presuppositions of NLP, however I have a problem with the word “trying”. Do me a favour. Try [...]
You may not want to hear it but happiness is a choice. We choose to be happy or we choose not to be happy. It doesn’t feel like you’ve got a choice most of the time though does it? Happiness seems to be dependent on whether or not good things happen to us, or not [...]
Who is driving your car on your journey through life? People talk about a journey through life, don’t they? Why would you want to feel empowered to drive your own car? Think about it. Have you ever been in a car with a ‘backseat driver?’ What a nightmare!! I for one would definitely like to [...]
